“She’s Out Of My Life”

[1st Verse]
“She’s Out Of My Life
She’s Out Of My Life
And I Don’t Know Whether To Laugh Or Cry
I Don’t Know Whether To Live Or Die
And It Cuts Like A Knife
She’s Out Of My Life”


Recently, thoughts of her have been ruminating through my head.
Infact I drove through her neighbourhood which is just about 5 minutes from mine last Friday but didn’t think of trying to check her.

I stood no chance anyway.

On like two different occasions I’d parked not so far from her neighbourhood and called her relentlessly to no avail.

I’ve lost my young beautiful friend to 3 years married life (wif a lovely boy) and I can’t see her again.

This was someone I used to drive down to her Surulere abode to go eat ‘Ikokore’ (a massive Ijebu delicacy) and this guy “captured” her then friends like me can’t even say ‘Hi’ again.

Was seriously bothered about this so had sent her a mail.
Her prompt response:

‘Na very very jealous husband I marry o and me I no wan wahala – You know how you men are’

What kinda man will do that to my G ?

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr !



44 thoughts on ““She’s Out Of My Life”

  1. Reblogged this on femidadaadedina and commented:
    When a man is too jealous of his wife, it is veering towards obsession and not love. Many young girls fall into this trap and most times live their lives in the hell hole because they cannot exit again. Excessive jealousy is a means of control. Control that sometimes cover the actions ( which the controller partakes in-” Apani kò ní jé a mú idà kojá l’órí òun”) of the controller and softens the “controllee” to a point in which s/he begins to think his/her existence depends on the controller. S/he becomes malleable and doubts so much. So, forget your friend and wish and wait for the day she will ‘open eye’ and face her controller. On that day if it ever come, you will hear stories. That is if you have not been hearing stories now.

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    1. . . . Another wonderful and so thought provoking angle to this write up.

      Truth to a large extent too.

      I sure hope it is well with the both of them sha.

      2 becoming 1 is never easy. Not at all.
      All they need is striking their own balance. I truly hope they do.



      1. A good prayer at that. If there are ways for you to find out what is going behind the fence where your G is, please do. Remember, jealous men do not ease off, Othello is a good example and in most cases they get jealous over nothing. Reading through your post, it shows that you really like your G. Please find out how she is doing so that there won’t be had I know.

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      2. I am not saying she is someone more than an aburo o. Reading your postings one tends to think you are a womaniser but that is a facade. Those Casanovas don’t tell or say it because by their actions they are known. I am only saying we need to really care for those lovable parts of us. If you don’t mind you may let me know about the stories after seeing your aburo.

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